I’ve been married to the same person for almost twenty years, and supposedly, his family was my family. Apparently, I’m a tossable comodity for them. As it were, I stood up for a friend of mine, who happens to be the mother of my brother in law’s daughter. They’re not married, and are currently fighting over the baby (which he really has shown little interest in to this point). They were trash talking her, and name calling and all sorts of things, and I simply said to stop and that I had thought better of him than to allow that to happen, and he should have more respect for the mother of his child, and that he should be concerned for his daughter, not trashing the mother.
This, in my opinion, was the right thing to do.
Well, it seems that I have betrayed “THE FAMILY” and have been banished, called a drama queen, my daughter forsaken, as she spoke her mind too. They blocked all of us on facebook, but forgot a few accounts that were still connected, and friends that were still their friends on facebook, and it has come to my attention, that in mine and my daughter’s abscence, they have commenced an attack on me and my daughter. How cowardly, in my opinion. I tried to confront my brother in law, and he told me I was a liar and was feeding private information to the baby’s mother to be used against him in court. This was an outright lie and I have proof that it was not me. I would never do anything like that to anyone. If nothing else, I am honest.
And because I am honest, I pay for it every time. Unfortunately, it seems, since I have taught my children to speak their mind, and to tell the truth, they too have to pay for it now. Their own blood threw them away. I never had a family, but I hoped they did. I guess, blood isn’t thicker than water.
